I have a bald spot

I regret it every time I get a hair­cut, but it’s there. No, it’s not on top of my head. As Rite the styl­ist said this week­end, “Boy you’ve got four heads of hair on one head.” Indeed it’s true. I was born with a full head of hair, and I’m show­ing all the signs of tak­ing it to my grave.

But I do have a bald spot.

It’s man made too, that’s the worst part!

Out of stress and ner­vous­ness, at my old jobs, I plucked at longer-than-desired side­burn hairs until one day I real­ized I had cre­ated a minia­ture bald spot. Stress invaded me. It inhab­ited my mind.

And the worst part? It wasn’t all dis­tress, some of it was eustress that I sim­ply didn’t know how to process.

If no one has ever taught you to drink water or swim in water, all you know how to do is drown in it.

Learn how to process, ana­lyze and accept stress. I’m still learn­ing, but I’ve got it 95% licked.

Discussion

  1. Adam says:

    First time I’ve checked your blog in a while. Two things:

    1. “Eustress” as oppo­site of “dis­tress” is a won­der­ful neologism.

    2. Love this: “If no one has ever taught you to drink water or swim in water, all you know how to do is drown in it.”

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